Ginger Ray - An Introvert's Guide to surviving a hen party
So, you've got a hen party on the horizon, but the thought of navigating through a sea of social interactions is making you break into a cold sweat. Fear not introverts, we've got your back! Follow these top tips to make sure that you don't bring down the mood at the hen party and instead boost the atmosphere of the event. Hen parties are a chance to celebrate the lucky soon-to-be bride so make it a night she'll never forget! Jess Martin, Hen Party expert at Ginger Ray has shared 6 strategies to ensure that you not only survive, but actually enjoy the festivities:
1. Craft your plan "Before diving headfirst into the soiree, take a moment to map out your game plan. Planning ahead is crucial – it helps alleviate the pre-party jitters and ensures you have a backup plan if needed. Scope out the venue and general activity beforehand, identify quite retreats, and have an "escape plan" ready. Sleeping arrangements come as part of this. For weekend-long hen parties, make sure you are sharing with someone who also needs time to recharge socially. If there is space, see if you can request your own room."
2. Keep your purpose in mind " Pause and remind yourself why you're attending in the first place. It's not about you – it's about celebrating your friend's milestone. Introverted people tend to fixate on their own feelings a lot, but by staying focused on your goal of being there and cheering on the bride-to-be, it can help alleviate some anxiety."
3. Master the art of small talk "Small talk can be the bane of introverts everywhere. Arm yourself with conversation starters, whether it's the latest headlines or gossip from your fav tv show. And if small talk isn't your thing, then perhaps discuss topics in relation to the bride – maybe how the other hen party-goers know her?"
4. Take breathers when needed "Feeling overwhelmed? It's okay to hit pause. Sneak away to a cosy corner or take a stroll outside. Remember, a little alone time can work wonders, leaving you refreshed and ready to rejoin the festivities with newfound vigour."
5. Assign yourself a role "Embrace your inner multitasker by assigning yourself a purpose. Offer to lend a hand with party preparations or channel your inner photographer to capture those candid moments. Not only will you keep busy, but you'll also be hailed as the unsung hero of the event."
6. Find a buddy "Strength in numbers right? A fellow partygoer who shares your apprehensions. Together, you can navigate the social landscape with confidence, sparing each other the agony of solitary corner cocktail sipping.&q